Tips for first-timers at lifestyle events in Salt Lake City?
We're a couple in our early 30s and we're going to our first lifestyle event in Salt Lake City next month. We're excited but nervous. What should we expect? Any tips for making a good first impression? What should we wear?
Best Answer
Congratulations on taking the leap! Here are my top tips for your first event in Salt Lake City:
- Communicate with your partner — Set clear boundaries before you arrive. Decide what you're comfortable with and stick to it.
- Dress to impress — For ladies, a cocktail dress or sexy outfit. For men, a button-down shirt and nice pants (no jeans or sneakers at most clubs).
- Don't drink too much — A couple drinks to loosen up is fine, but you want to be present and aware.
- Say no gracefully — "Thank you, but we're not interested" is a complete sentence. No one will be offended.
- Don't expect too much your first time — Most couples just watch and socialize on their first visit. That's totally normal and expected.
Have fun and welcome to the community!
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The biggest mistake first-timers make is putting pressure on themselves. Go with zero expectations. Think of it as going to a really cool cocktail party where everyone is open-minded. If you end up just chatting and people-watching all night, that's a great first experience. The play will come naturally when you're both ready.
One thing I wish someone told me before our first event: bring a lock for the lockers, bring flip-flops if there's a pool/hot tub area, and bring breath mints. Also, most Salt Lake City clubs are BYOB so bring a bottle of whatever you like to drink. Have a wonderful time!